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The Heart
A concerned father brought his 7- year-old daughter to psychotherapy because she had recently started to have tantrums, was very unhappy and moody, and answered badly when spoken to. She was not sleeping well and she refused to go to school. During the first play therapy session, she told me that before she had always liked school where she sang, laughed, and enjoyed playing with her friends. Now she felt sad and scared. She said, “My father would not love me anymore.”
Playing With Fire
Perhaps the most useful of Erickson’s remarkable techniques is the concept of utilization. Utilization harnesses the language and experience of the client. It allows clients to use their own knowledge, strengths, and skills to explore useful solutions to their own problems. As such it is well suited to working with clients like the adolescent described below, who may not be particularly interested in “therapy” or in “self-examination.”
Business as Usual
A middle-aged man came to see me under pressure from his wife. She had told him she would leave if he didn’t make some life changes. Both husband and wife expressed that their marriage was very important to them, but it was clear to us all that their marriage was near collapse. He told me he did not know what the problem was even though his wife had complained about his commitment to his work for many years.
The Boxer
The 21-year-old client did not want to be in therapy. Charged with assault on his girlfriend, he had been ordered to counseling as a condition of probation. The intake, conducted by another therapist, noted, “Client is reluctant to focus on violence-related issues.”
The client, muscular and sullen, entered the first session in silence and sat slouched in his chair with a cap concealing most of his face. He had described himself as “a boxer” and had explained that counseling should not interfere with his “career,” which consisted solely of daily sparring at a local gym.
Erickson and the Owl
The following is in the words of John Grinder: One of my favorite episodes with Erickson was when Bandler [Richard] and I were dazzled with the elegance and effectiveness of the Ericksonian patterning somewhere in the mid to late ’70s. In our obsessive quest for the testing of patterns we …
Writing Wright
Several weeks ago, while researching an article on T.E.A. von Dedenroth, I came across a folder containing 85+ pieces of correspondence between Milton Erickson, M. D. and Eric M. Wright, Ph.D., M.D. of the University of Kansas covering the period from 1964 to 1966. In 1965, Wright was the president of …
TOAST
Routines can help us structure our time, keep us focused on the task at hand and facilitate goal attainment. Yet routine can also get us into rigidity. In Phoenix, David Gordon and Mary-Beth Anderson recount Erickson’s experience eating breakfast with a colleague: “And we ALL have our …
T. E. A. von Dedenroth, Part II
Subsequent to the posting of “Say What? What’s in a Name?” we are following up with additional information about T. E. A., one of the more colorful people who studied with Erickson. T.E.A. was an internist who became a forensic psychiatrist after he studied with Erickson. He was Erickson’s personal physician and went on to testify in some high-profile cases as an expert witness.
Plight of the Editor and Roasted/Baked Camel Stew
Several weeks ago, while researching an article on T.E.A. von Dedenroth, I came across a folder containing about 80+ pieces of correspondence between Erickson and M. Eric Wright, Ph.D., M.D. of the University of Kansas covering the period from 1964 to 1966. In 1965, Wright …
Hypnotherapy with a Psychotic
Laskarri had been diagnosed in the psychiatric ward as suffering from schizophrenia of the mixed catatonic-hebephrenic type. He was moderately disturbed in his behavior; several times a day he would shout gibberish apparently at hallucinatory figures and race back and forth …
Advancing Psychotherapy
Introduction I am blessed to have had personal contact with masters whose work immeasurably advanced psychotherapy in both the latter part of the 20th century and in this century. These notables include Aaron Beck, Albert Ellis, Milton Erickson, Viktor Frankl, Bob and Mary Goulding, Jay Haley, Cloé Madanes…
Tips for Attending a Virtual Conference
Virtual Conferences have become increasingly popular in 2020 and 2021 as a safe way to connect with others, attend trainings, and continue your education. While we all miss seeing each other and connecting with each other in person…
Exhaling Toxic Feelings
I recently had a short but effective experience with Dr. Greenleaf that impacted me both personally and professionally. At the end of a workshop on hypnotherapy, I asked Dr. Greenleaf if he could help relieve my symptoms of allergic rhinitis with hypnotherapy.
Interview
Derald Wing Sue was born in Portland, Oregon and is Chinese American. He grew up in a predominantly white neighborhood and remembers being teased due to his ethnicity. Although the prejudice and discrimination negatively affected Sue, it prompted him to study multiculturalism and later, cross-cultural counseling.
Book Review
By presenting An Epic Life: Milton H. Erickson: Professional Perspectives, Dr. Zeig distinguishes between first- and second-generation scholars of various professional fields, weaving not an ordinary linear biography, but rather an exquisite mosaic. The bibliography…
Wake Up and Go To Sleep
Ben was referred to me by a local hospital for the treatment of Rapid Eye Movement (REM) behavioral disorder. Due to aging, a part of his brain had degenerated, resulting in loss of muscular control during REM…
Milton H. Erickson
How did he do it? How did he develop his artistry? How did his work unfold as seemingly simplistic? Or was it, really? What was behind the thinking of this great man? What directions would he take if he were with us today, a generation after his passing?
An Interview with Jeff Zeig by Dan Short
It is with immense pleasure that I present to you the engaging interview below, conducted by Dan Short with Jeffrey Zeig, founding director/president of the Erickson Foundation. The Foundation is celebrating 40 years since it was established in 1979, while Erickson was still actively…